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This morning was frustrating, for work reasons including a canceled meeting and a long fire-alarm that left me with a headache from the sirens. I was headed for one of those work funks that was going to last all day. So instead of booking the afternoon off, I took part of my lunch hour to work on my Canadian Citizenship Application.

Yes! It's time; I've been a Permanent Resident for long enough that I can apply. I could've applied a month ago, but I wanted to leave lots of leeway because they count all the time I'm out of the country between four years ago and when my application is filed.

By the end of filling out forms, I actually felt better. I got my photos taken (in the adjoining plaza. The guy who works at the photo shop is a character. He doesn't remember me, but he's taken all of my immigration photos, over the last four years and two attempts to become a permanent resident). I paid my application fees online, which was reasonably painless, and I printed forms. They'll go into tomorrow's mail.

Today made a particularly symbolic date to have on the forms.

Tonight is also the tenth anniversary of when [livejournal.com profile] melted_snowball and I first decided we were a couple. (Not our first date, a semi-formal where I went home with someone else. That's another story.) Ten years ago was a drive in the country followed by star-gazing in some farmer's field near Ithaca. There was a total lunar eclipse. You can look it up.

Six months or so later, we were living together with two other people; the next year with one other; the following year just the two of us.

Five years ago, plus a month, we moved to Canada. And the first full day we were here, we sat in the HR office where we filed paperwork for the University's health insurance, and the HR person asked what our marital status was. Well, since we were now living in Canada, and we'd been co-habitating for more than one year, we were common-law. She checked the box. She left to copy the forms and we said to each other, hm, that was a bit anticlimactic, wasn't it?

Anniversaries aren't such a big deal in our household. I'm bad with dates, and dan's anti-sentimental. So, marking our twice-five anniversary with bureaucratic forms seems oddly perfectly appropriate.

Forgive me a bit of introspection, but that's life. It's the days that roll by to become years, to become a decade. And I had so little idea ten years ago where I'd be today. But I can't help get a bit emotional about how damn lucky I am. Tomorrow is just as unknowable as ten years from now. We could get hit by a car. The world could end. God willing, there will be a good long series of tomorrows with us together in them.

So, I was thinking about this as I got on my bike to come home, and I glanced down as my bike's odometer rolled over again from 999.9 to 0.

Yes.

Date: Wednesday, 27 September 2006 01:17 am (UTC)

Date: Wednesday, 27 September 2006 03:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dcseain.livejournal.com
She left to copy the forms and we said to each other, hm, that was a bit anticlimactic, wasn't it?

Sometimes, that's the nicest way to have it. Thank you for sharing this.

Date: Wednesday, 27 September 2006 04:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] butterbee.livejournal.com
Happy tenth anniversary!

I love reading posts like this, anticlimactic ending or not - it still warms my heart.

Date: Wednesday, 27 September 2006 03:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ng-nighthawk.livejournal.com
Great post. Congrats to you both.

Date: Wednesday, 27 September 2006 11:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sulle-stelle.livejournal.com
What a great post! I love this story!

Congratulations!!!!!!

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